On the first weekend of May the Eastern Shore experienced a landmark social shift—the first open celebration of our LGBTQ community members. The midshore chapter of PFLAG (Parents, Families, and Friends of Lesbian and Gays) brushed aside their own nervousness and blew past a small handful of detractors to organize six events over four days across Kent, Talbot, and Dorchester counties. The result was an outpouring of support and acceptance that suggests a fundamental change to social life on the Eastern Shore.
Few realize how unique and unusual the Midshore PRIDE event was. Far from the stereotypical portrayal of militant urban homosexuals determined to shock, the colorfully decorated local events were characterized by energetic youth, smiling families, and dancing children. PFLAG contingents in big-city PRIDE parades always generate huge applause from spectators, but the organization itself does not typically sponsor these events. The local organizers, who included mothers and straight allies, were committed to making Midshore PRIDE family-friendly and to showcase the achievements of local LGBTQ youth and their friends.
The regional nature of Midshore PRIDE was also unique. Though this celebration would be the first of its kind and the organizers had no experience to draw upon, from the start it was always envisioned as a series of events spanning multiple counties. PFLAG drew upon its longstanding relationships in the three counties to craft their geographically-challenging plan. (Later, community leaders in Caroline County also expressed interest in participating but time was too short to add them in.)
The celebration got a jump-start of publicity last March, when the town council of Chestertown only narrowly approved a permit to hold an outdoor festival in iconic Fountain Park. The vote, along with opponents’ comments that some found offensive, sparked a series of supportive newspaper articles and Facebook posts—an online poll conducted by the Chestertown Spy found 90% public approval for the event. Over the next few weeks the organizers raised over $7,000 and recruited dozens of volunteers to carry out their plan.
When the time came the outdoor festival in Chestertown, which was strongly supported by the town’s leadership, was attended by some 300–400 people. Speeches from the stage, including those by former gubernatorial candidate Heather Mizeur and Chestertown mayor Chris Cerino, emphasized neighborly love, not political activism. Children were entranced and delighted by a contingent of cross-dressing “drag” performers visiting from New York City, led by Kent County native Marti Gould Cummings. As quoted in the Chestertown Spy , Cummings said, “The truth is, we’re not disgusting. Look at the person next to you—that’s your family.” Numerous local shops and restaurants flew rainbow flags distributed by the downtown business association. Anticipated protests failed to appear, and even the dicey weather cooperated.
It is safe to say that midshore Maryland has a new social norm that further adds to the quality of life so many find attractive. The organizers are planning for Midshore PRIDE to be an annual event, bigger and better each year to come.
Title image: Pond at Pickering Creek Audubon Center, Talbot Co. Photo: Jan Plotczyk